Love with Faults?

Man makes mistakes. Man is born to err. Nobody is a perfectionist. We all know people whom we might really admire, who are an Inspiration to us, who are the 'Best possible'...Yet, It doesn’t leave them from erring. Ironically, there is no excuse for a mistake. 'Everybody Makes Mistakes’; 'To err is human'.


All of us know people around...friends, teachers, family whomever we might really have a high regard for, but they have a darker side to them too...because of that 'One mistake', error, and bug in their perfect programming. Gossip goes on about all, bad talk, bad instances... everybody has a small "blot", which thankfully might not be clear or distinct in some lives but in some it is!

As we analyze a character, not all people find him/her Good. You might have a friend you really like, good to you but he/she is not a great companion to your other friend. That doesn’t make him an enemy to you. Hence, at various perspectives, everybody is good and Bad, Great and worse and so on...

Man shows his 'n' dimensions on Earth. These 'n' dimensions are received by 'n' different people in 'n' different ways and no man is not without striking a chord in some or the other life, not without being good to somebody as much as he might err.

There are places where 'you' being not so good to somebody doesn't stop them from loving you. Maybe its pity that’s shaping into love, maybe concern, Maybe their own virtue...But your faults truly don’t matter to some. There are so many relations where things don’t turn out the right way, Where mistakes are already made...They are Relations still and do withhold Love. In the complex knitting of this peculiar fabric where holes and cross-stitches are a part, Love is well embedded. All of us know people, so close to us who 'might not be doing it just right', yet you love them. We have friends who might have hurt you at one point, whom you have hurt...What’s the result? We discover each other’s weaknesses’ and that is not all...Knowingly or unknowingly...Subconsciously, We tend to protect them, prevent them from erring.

"Love with faults”. Maybe this was what it meant, to see through ones faults and not vacate that small place they might have occupied in your heart...Look through and let Go...But don’t judge too soon...Don’t hurt too soon...This was what it meant? Maybe...All those people trying to live in prisons for Crimes they have committed and not have, All those people who are facing 'Life sentence' for once committed Atrocities, Who if given a chance might change...All those people who have become Social outcasts, Like fighting a Life taking disease like AIDS is not enough?, All those Trans and Homosexuals who have ventured anti-nature and seek Natures, Mankind’s acceptance...Can’t we love them because they have blundered??? Can’t we accept them for that one act which after its consequences, we decided to call it a ‘Mistake’?


Loving is a process, A practice and a habit...You love somebody daily, It cannot wane with time, it’s not an emotion, it’s an old habit which will die hard and is accompanied by many emotions. Not having someone perfect doesn’t lessen your love. ‘Love has to be perfect’. As you think on these lines, you might be amazed at how many people you know around you who are not so perfect and yet that can’t stop you from loving them. In this habit of loving, one cannot find fault, one cannot let their close ones err...and yet can totally accept if nature plans to add spice to a perfect life with a small mistake and all that which follows...Realisation, Remorse, and Relief!!!